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Jun 13, 2021Liked by Jenny duBay

This article describes and fits perfectly my former husband, myself and our marriage. I have read all the articles posted in this newsletter. They all fit well with my married life, and they have all helped me in many ways including in my ongoing healing. But for me this article had helped the most. It has aided my ability to see and understand ever so much more clearly, taken away a lot of false guilt and brought yet more inner healing! Thank you so much!

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Jun 13, 2021Liked by Jenny duBay

Wow! This so hit home! .I so recognize my partner in all the behavior you are describing

here. Definitely, his fear of abandonment and being vulnerable is totally driving this relationship and creating my eventual " abandonment" of him. Thank you for bringing this to our attention. Really very interesting read and definitely my experience and reality here! We do stay too long in these relationships but information and knowledge, understanding of the issues at play here, is so important. Your contribution and shedding light on these issues is making such a difference in my life. Thank you. Truly, thank you!

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